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Erma Spray, matriarch of the bluegrass world for 37 years, passed from this world on Monday, April 6, 2009 at the Clark County Nursing Home, Kahoka, MO. 

  Erma & Delbert were known all over the country for their promotion of bluegrass, not only of their own festivals but for everything where bluegrass music was concerned. They truly loved the bluegrass family and their countless number of friends proved it. Everywhere they went – they knew people – and people knew them!

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 Erma & Delbert were co-founders of the Tri-State Bluegrass Association, formed in Hannibal MO in 1978. From that stemmed festivals that are still being enjoyed by everyone. In 1980 Erma started publication of the TSBA Band & Festival Guide which is still comes out each year. The countless hours she poured into this book would overwhelm most people but to her it was always a labor of love. Keeping the Association running was of utmost importance to her.

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Erma & Bob Baldridge

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Erma @ Sally Mt. Festival 1999

Erma & James @ Nashville

Erma & James King in Nashville

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Erma-Fiddler's Inn @ Kahoka BGF

ERMA F. SPRAY

Erma F. Spray, age 85, of Kahoka, MO, died Monday, April 6, 2009, at the Clark Co. Nursing Home in Kahoka.

She was born August 6, 1923, at Williamstown, MO, the daughter of Henry Frank and Jettie Mae Webster Brookhart.

She met Delbert E. Spray when they were both college students in Kirksville and he had just returned from World War II. Their first date was at a Barn Dance where his father was playing. They were married November 28, 1946, in Kirksville. They lived there two years while finishing school and the rest of their lives were spent in Clark County.

Survivors include her children, Patricia Davidson of Williamstown, MO, and John Spray and his wife, Mona, of Kahoka, MO; grandchildren: Nicole Foti of Wentzville, MO, Nathan (Dena) Spray of Naples, FL, Matthew (Darci) Davidson of Wentzville, MO, and Joseph Spray of Kahoka, MO; two great grandchildren, Ashley Foti and Alexander LaFaire of Wentzville, MO; as well as other relatives.

She was preceded in death by her parents; her husband, Delbert Eugene Spray; an infant son, Larry Eugene Spray; and brother, J. W. Brookhart.

Erma graduated from Northeast Mo. State Teacher’s College. She taught south of Williamstown, at Ballard, and then Wyaconda. The majority of her teaching career was spent in the Kahoka/Clark County School District where she was also Junior Class sponsor and responsible for the Junior-Senior prom. She taught over 35 years, retiring in 1987.

In 1972, she and Delbert started promoting bluegrass festivals, organizing the Kahoka Bluegrass Festival that same year. In 1978, she and Delbert formed the Tri-State Bluegrass Association. They attended and promoted many Bluegrass events and made hundreds of friends all over the country. Erma continued working on Bluegrass promotions until her health started declining in 2008. For 27 years she and Delbert organized the annual benefit show for the Clark Co. Rescue Squad and then the C.A.R.E. organizations. All proceeds were donated to sustain their local activities.

Erma was a member of the Kahoka United Methodist Church and the church Circle group. She enjoyed flowers, playing black jack, tending garden with Delbert, camping, going to Blue grass festivals, New Year’s eve parties at John Hartfords’, and life on the farm. She dearly loved Delbert, her family and her Bluegrass work.

Funeral services will be held Thursday, April 9, 2009, at 1 p.m. at Wilson Funeral Home with Pastor Shawn McAfee officiating. Live bluegrass music will be performed beginning at noon in the funeral home lobby. Burial will follow in the Ballard Cemetery, southwest of Kahoka.

Friends can call at Wilson Funeral Home in Kahoka after1 p.m. Wednesday with family receiving friends from 6-8 p.m.

Memorials are suggested to the Delbert and Erma Spray Musical Scholarship which will be offered through the Clark County R-1 School District.

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